While probably a well-intentioned post, here’s a critique, in the form of a citation:
“the idea of sexual orientation… is a system of categorizing and judging bodies, identities, desires and practices according to certain criteria. Intertwined with the state as apparatus, sexual orientation as state form involves borders and policing, representation and control.” (Jamie Heckert, “Sexuality as State Form” (2011: p. 202), In Post-Anarchism: A Reader)
^ post-anarchist suggestion…